Such partners are better than those who compares the eyes to whatever and then stab your back. Thank God for his greatest blessing. Coz a bad partner means life long misery and a good one helps us create heaven down here where we live, be it a hut or slum.
Still I dont understand why sometimes he makes seemingly wrong pairs too... Yeah also his intention might be to compliment the negatives of a bad man with a good girls qualities, or could be vice versa, and thus to give them also a fair chance to lead a better life. right????
Secret:- I became a member of chennai moms with the sole mission of reading whatever you write , and I hope I would be able to get back a handful of those old college days, when you used to be a fantastic story teller about anything under the sun and I used to sit beside you with my eyes wide open. Love you Nisha
Beautifully put Nisha... summed up the entire institution of marriage and partnership in those simple words...
though i have always known u were a superlative storyteller, reading your blogs has convinced me u are a superlative writer too!! keep posting... love reading ur blogs!!
@loki - Lokiiiiii.. BIG things ellam engalukkulle mattum.... those memories are treasure for us.. what keeps the bond between us stronger and refreshes the feeling even now... public le potta then its lost lle?
@Bhavani - as you said in your post, even a noisy restaurant can bring out the poems in you... ungalukku vote pottirukken.. check your blog.
@ssb - Thanks.. dee.. i am sure u have a similar one!...
@Shobana.. yes shobana.. interesting for those who understand it... !
@Vai... yes Vai.. most of it are like that.. afterall... men are from mars and women are from venus!
@Magiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii..... lovvvvvvvve u to see u here tooo... i had a doubt when i saw this ID from Muscat...
Let me introduce...
frenz,
Magi is my best friend from college... and was in touch till this date .. via phone and emails.. the only one who would dare to call me at 12 in the night of March 9th every year to screaeaeaeam.. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
and then ask.. hey were u sleeping, did i disturb you?... oh I dont mind! ha ha ha ha!
@smitha... Sumi, my cousin.. the long time sufferer of my stories from childhood... who takes the pain to call me from her mobile and just LISTEN my blah blah patiently for hours....
coooooolllllllll writings..... solla vandhadha very neatly conveyed :-)...... I think you need to write one more article, "what made a blogisha convert to a poetisha"?
And my vote to u for making everyone realize that love neednt be explicit / conveyed as a special note....... just accepting the partner in absolute / wat they are itself is a big sweet nothing
Vani.. as Vaidehi said.. majority of us fall into this sector... these martians are like that! Even in those stories.. few moms wrote their current story... some of them wrote about their initial days.... the honeymoon days!
A very mature write-up. I read it again and again. As Vai and u hv said, many of us fall into that category. But only U could put it so beautifully. Just like beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, romance is in the way we feel it. Personally, mine's a very similar story too.
Nisha, from reading many of ur blogs, and especially ur comments, i had a feeling that u must be a Piscean. glad that i m right..!
Again, thnx for putting up a blog, with which many of us gals, who have no movie-type romantic tales to narrate, could identify with. Definitely the most romantic, according to me..!I loved this one..
Vote for Nisha campaign start panna poren. Knowing u personally, I feel it all depends on the person's point of view and u of all is the most patient and the best wife one could ever have. A sweet one. Kudos, after all this I don't have to tell u that I have voted for u. God Bless U for what u r.
Nisha, a friend(u wont believe, but she is a Piscean too..!) introduced me to Astrology and Linda Goodman when i was in 11th Std. And then, in about 5 years, i had karachu kudichufied all her books, and at one time, i was able to guess a person's sunsign by observing them/talking to them for a few minutes.! Though that ability has almost vanished over time, some people show distinctive traits of a particular sun-sign, and i am able to guess it, old habits...!
1. Ur way of looking thru (u know what i mean by looking 'thru', as opposed to looking 'at') things, ppl, situations. 2. sharp intellect 3. Ability to look at the funnier/sunnier side of things. 4. First of all(not last), the way with words..God gifts most Pisceans with this. My friend whom i mentioned above, is an absolute delight to read, when she does write..
Ur poem is superb Nisha................elarum unga bloga ethir paatha u surprised us with a nice poem..........................so we are goin to see poetess Nisha....................also in future
Uthara.. i will PM you my husband's ID.. antha message konjam forward panriya?
Anu...unnoda first and third point otthukkren... i learnt this skill from my life and those around... The other two points, i will try and work towards it.. my dream..
Thanks Uma...
Hey Vani... you tooo.. i think there are many pisceans here then.. I know Hasina is one hardcore pisces woman..
I THINK pisces romba touchy ppl anyway let me ask ANU (LINDA GOODMAN bk karaichi kudichavanga, ANU if possbl GUESS which sign mine is? (testing ur astrology knwldge)
NISHA i expected more romantic blog from u
nee ennai romba disappoint panni tey why?
may be u want to show that in a poetic way GOOD ONE (appa kooda romance konjam irunthirukalam, but i think only scorpions are more romantic namma SHARUKH ,kamal madiri)
Always wondered! "Enakku mattum yen ippadi" I can never boast of my husband holding my hand and walking in public( Marriage la pudichathoda seri) Nadantha pathadi thooram.
But .................. I know he will never let go of my hand in life.
Enjoyed every single line of your poem. Appadiye manasa scan panna mathiri iruku.
So lets all celebrate valentine's day throughout life and not over petty red roses.
(still remember my bday , really very touched , i thought only famous ppl bdays everyone remembers,like AR REHMANs bday(JAN 6)but i never expected u still remember my bday very touched)
SURE WE ALL WILL COME (sayee,jshri,penitia,lekha,anunisha,ramya eveready ....we just waiting other moms to join ... PONDICHERRY PIC BLOG podaporom paru)
(it would be nice if we all can celebrate HOLI at PONDY .... (i played holi (2008) last to last year as i was with SCOPE but as i resigned last year i didnt play in 2009 march ... )
Very nice..It would also encourage others to take life positively.......Not everything can be perfect in life..If imperfection is in the manner of showing love explicitly I feel it is so spl spared only with you...not shown for anyone else. He is so close to you than anyone else...May be he feels you and he are one and the same,,,,do we wish our selves on our b'day? Well written..
and for voting... u have to click on the "+" symbol right below the blogs. This was not posted for a contest. so for voting, u can go to the following link, read the blogs in this series, and vote for the ones u liked...
Hi Nisha, Vote panna ponen, it says already voted. So I've voted for you long back, comments than ezhudalai. Great work, Nisha. Itha print panni frame potu vekaporen.............. (sikram copyright potudu...)
enga chennai moms kavithayini nishakku oru periyaa ooooooooooooooooooo
nisha ennaiyum unga ganglaa serthukkongaa same blood ethaey kathaithan engaiyum enna orae oru difference nenga solli irukkara kavithailaa naan slim he is fat ethula oru alpaa santhosham enakku