i had PCOS, and i got conceived naturally... and i believe its because of gods grace... i know other friends with same problem, who took so much pains to conceive
another friend with same PCOS took efforts for 1 year to loose weight, took regular medication, lot of perseverance... and she conceived finally.. and delivered naturally a baby girl as she wished.. !!! again gods grace..
another friend who had regular cycles throughout her teens.. conceived.. abortioned... again conceived.. and now prematured baby with just 1.25 kg baby weight...
antoher friend.. all regular cycles... conceived.. a bit delayed... after 5th month.. her water broke.. baby died inside the womb...and doctors had to induce pain to bring the baby out vaginally...
so.. nothing is in our hands... its all god's plans...
Cos we didnt plan for my second one now and I was using pills to avoid.......and that too dat month we were together for just one time....But yet I got concieved...now on my 7th month....Even my gynaec wonders how comes this possible....
I believe it is 100% in gods hand. I had seen couple who had yearned for a kid for close to 11 -12 years after marriage but took that long to conceive. They were thinking of adoption after trying out all medical stuff.. atlast they had a kid after 12 years after marriage..
Thanks to all for answers…I strongly believe that its 100% god’s will…
Today I had an argument with my friend who thinks otherwise…its from her experience she says..she opted not to have for three years and then go for baby. And immediately when they wanted she conceived and the same with her sister as well…so I guess its her own experience…
I became curios to know what everybody else thinks so posted a question… :)
I feel very good after I read all ur messages as I started thinking that its all in our hands…. Thanks to all once again…
thanks all for the answers:)
i totally agree with u all...
today i had an agrument wiht my friend that its all in god's hands but she
i thik its really someone else up above deciding on this....some people get lucky even after post poning ....thats because that too is 'gods wish'...haha !! my sister is law went off to dubai after wedding...so wanted to put of children for a year....now its been 8 years and they are thinking about adoption ;(..... she went in for ICF thrice without a positive result .......
In my case, my mil pestered me to have a child in the first month of marriage...u shud see her face when i used to get my periods.... then we went for counselling in the 4 month of marraige... doc gave folic acid tabs and said 'TRY'.......... we 'tried' and i concieved in a month ...i did have a history of poly cystic ovaries and my doctor was surprised.....
For my second one, it was unexpected , unplanned and rather upsetting because i had just quit my job for a better one and then i had to sit at home for my pregnancy...later i realised how stupid i was..... ...
Now I dont have a job...but I have two sweet sons ......I am happy that God has blessed us with them....I feel sad for people who struggle to have children .....
i thik its really someone else up above deciding on this....some people get lucky even after post poning ....thats because that too is 'gods wish'...haha !! ----
superb topic for discussion . Even those who feel god is not there , need to accept that conceiving or avoiding is not in our hands ( i know many a persons who had plans of postponing becoming a mother , but they conceived & said somehow missed the calculation ( ? ) . It certainly is beyond our control , in the hands of the almighty .....
This is one topic ALL will second your opinion .... and no opponents
