I wanted to know who is the one person who has changed/helped/influenced/god sent/ in your life…
I know how difficult it is for a working woman to manage house and work, its goes without saying that house wives also has so many difficulties making things ready to hubby, taking care of baby etc
But usually in our troubles god’s invisible hand is at work, he makes things easy through people around who are absolutely not related to us in any ways… ….
Who are or who is the one person who helped in a small way or helps u daily in small ways that makes your life more easier, more merrier and makes ur life more simple….
It can be a maid, who takes care of kid while we run to take bath, it might be the flower vendor who just sits with u for few minutes and speaks to u about ur baby making u feel better after taking care of ur baby alone at home, or someone who helped u especially in relation to ur baby…
The imp point is he or she should not be related to you in any ways..not ur mom, ur hubby, or anyone who has blood relation with you…..
For me any time you ask me I will say with a doubt that its my maid= who takes care of everything in my home, washing, cooking dinner, washing utensils, picking up guru from day care and looking after him, listening to my bad tamil L, trying to teach me tamil, consoling me when I miss my mom….she is an angel an invisible had of GOD...i don’t know if will be ever be able to repay her….she is my parachute on whom I can depend when my flight stops working …whose your parachute???
As of now, I have nt find such a helpful person.Our maid takes 1 week leave for every month.I can manage.Anyways, really nice to hear that ur maid is helpful.
Hmmm..for me this has been many ppl..at some testing times, like u ve mentioned-God's invisible hand sends somebody to help us. For the past 5 yrs and more, it has been my parents- looking after my daughter, never bothering when i came home late(not often late from work, usually shopping-after-office..!)..helping me with cooking, sometimes even cooking for me..etc..
Recently, since the last week, i would say its been the maami who s providing us fresh, delicious dinner. Its really such a god-send for me..! I return home at around 6.30-7pm, and since the mess from the morning rush hour has to be dealt with immediately upon arriving, i would fly into a rage if hubby & daughter slumped into the sofa to watch tv.. Wud hv no inclination to cook a decent dinner, i wud always end up with dosa or upma.. for which my daughter wud give me a really tough time, creating a scene
So when this readymade dinner starting arriving, life is so much easier now. I only have to clean the morning disarray, and have dinner..
I would say Kavitha akka..relative to my FIL.. recently got married.. staying with us for the sake of Aadi maasam..
She cooks very well for the past 2 weeks Im not into the kitchen..She is taking care of everything.. less morning hassless.. No hurry burry samayal.. Got time to feed my school going kid.. otherwise I've to depend on my MIL to make ready of him
2 More weeks there to enjoy.. After that.. After that.. OH my GOD...
For me its my Boss Mr.Mohammed Ameer Khan(Helped us financially on my bad times....Till today have not opened his mouth about the Money...He is a Hyderabadi)
Next is my Husband's friend Mr. & Mrs. Jaffer...new brother for me.....(He and his wife helped in all ways...no words to mention about them...His wife taken good care of me till date from my first pregnancy....They are Srilankan...not related to Blood or even national wise...)
For me..its our cmom frens...I will share each and every activity with them..which keeps me relaxed all thru the day....right from GM wishes,till the time gng to loo and bidding good bye...Thanks to all moms for being so caring and wonderful....
I have seen such an angel in every woman I meet! Either they help me out unconditionally or give trouble to me to make me grow with more zeal to come out of my problems! Every human we meet do play an important role in our social, moral, intellectual and spiritual well-being either by supporting us or by fighting with us! So, every one deserves a lot many thanks as every one is great in some way or the other!
Its really such a god-send for me..! I return home at around 6.30-7pm, and since the mess from the morning rush hour has to be dealt with immediately upon arriving, i would fly into a rage if hubby & daughter slumped into the sofa to watch tv..
Wud hv no inclination to cook a decent dinner, i wud always end up with dosa or upma.. for which my daughter wud give me a really tough time, creating a scene
